I just felt a need to say that. That’s pretty much all for now. Thanks 🙂
Ren
This structure of dependence on technology and fossil fuel that the most “developed’ countries have created is simultaneously changing the game plan (think global warming) far far faster than we can possibly develop technology to respond with.
The Earth shakes, the sun spots become active, the glaciers become mobile, the water rises, the food dies, our skin bubbles cancer, and our life-lines to the world: our information and technology, just sputter out. There, and then gone. We love coming up with movie scenarios about how easily our infrastructures could collapse. But we don’t need to look far to see real examples of what happens when nature bites, or oil is spilled, or levies (politics) fail. It’s some really scary shit.
You know that feeling you get when you lose internet for a night? Or lose power altogether? Imagine a total blackout. Even for a day, a week, a month. It’s easy to be overwhelmed thinking about the cascade of responses that would likely happen next, not the scariest of which are mass panic, greed and general chaos. Our civilization is truely fragile. Our value systems and our character would suddenly be challenged to the breaking point. And I predict most of us will break, to varying degrees. As it is we can barely be civil with each other. How about when our technology fails us on a grand scale for any reason? A globally warmed “natural” disaster, an overzealous extremist with nuclear fire power…
And it’s looking like “when,” not if. Damn. Yay, America, still dragging your heels in ceasing to do harm or doing anything really constructive! And don’t call me unpatriotic. I would love it if my fucking country finally did the things I really stand for and I could be proud of our policies and leadership. I wish. Really. I still hope.
I really hoped even more that the whole 12-12-12 thing would rock us all right into an evolved global human conciousness.
Nope.
“No Cigar, Mr. President.” (spoken in my best Marilyn/Monica)
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Ren climbs off her rant box, empties a can of lighter fluid on it and back hands a lit match in it’s general direction. She walks off without looking back, heading toward a quiet evening of pixel porn, conversation, and music making, not in any particular order.
The best way to prepare to die, is to live well.
By “live well,” I mean do the things daily that you would do if you were told your death was imminent and you wanted to prepare to die. You would have information for your loved ones in order and accessible. You would tell them you love them. You would try to make amends and say you were sorry where you could. You would perhaps take risks you never had the guts to take before. If we live this way everyday we will always be prepared to die.
Live well.
When my mother was passing away in hospice she said, “I don’t mind dying, but there are so many things I haven’t finished yet!” She was 83 and in the 43 years I got to be her daughter on this planet, I never heard her turn down a project. When she said that I just held her hand and laughed, and said, “Mom, if you had another 50 years of perfect health granted you right now, you would be saying the same thing at the end of it.” She laughed with me and I think that gave her peace. It gives me peace. There’s a few things I need to do, accomplishments like record my music, the only tangible thing I have to give, my legacy, if you will, is my music and whomever’s lives I have touched, in good or bad ways.
I don’t want to spend my life fearing death. I choose to embrace it by accepting that death is an inescapable reality for every single one of us and by being my complete and authentic self every moment of every day. That means speaking what I feel, taking risks, accomplishing as many goals as I get lucky enough to get in before then, and leaving people better off for having known me, and not wondering how I felt about them, or without my forgiveness.
May each and every one of you really live this year, starting with this moment.
Respect, Ren
I hope you are all having a great holiday. Whoever this post reaches, it was intended for you.
Thoughts on enjoying this season, especially as it comes to a head this week with family, travel, and parties:
Be well everyone, stay safe and grateful and remember that it’s going to be OK. Maybe even better than that!
With Respect and Blessings of the Season,
Ren
Originally posted in my Second Life Profile Pick, “Uh Oh… She’s Thinking Again! (Recent Thought Logging)”
11/10/12 – I turned 50 in October 2012. And I realized that:
In my 20s it was the 1980s, my 30s it was the 1990s, my 40s was 2000s. Now it’s heading into 2013, so it’s the “teens” all over again. How fitting. Second shot at growing up? Middle age does have some things in common with puberty. Think about that. Hmm.
Lyrics and Music by Ren Enberg
(Copyright 1985)
Liner Notes: I wrote this as a pep talk to myself when I was in between boyfriends in my early 20s in PA
Oo baby tell me are you crying
for the pain you left behind?
Because you know there were some good times, yeah
Baby, have you found your truth yet?
Its up to you how you do
Oh baby now you’re on the wire
Behind you see the repetition
Beyond you there can be some good times, yeah
Baby have you sung enough blues yet?
It’s only you, how you do!
You are alone, though loves supports you
You make it work, though work is harder now
Commitment can be your redemption
You sow, you reap, and so you weep
You’re gonna have to learn it some how!
Oo Lady is this chapter finished?
And has a new one just begun?
So when you write the final pages
will you say you’ve found your truth yet?
It’s only you how you do!
Oo lady, feel the sun is warming
The thaw is coming time to shine
Flow like a river, moving clear and cool
Baby have you found your proof yet?
It’s only you, yeah and how you do!
Lyrics and Music by Ren Enberg
(copyright 12/23/12)
Liner Notes: I have no idea where this came from other than random though threads following a typical conversation about life, the Universe and Everything with Quai, but I wrote it today. I hear a kind of brassy jazzy pop going on with this. I have a melody in my head.
Everybody’s got issues
that’s not the issue
but does your issue
get along with mine?
Everbody’s got problems
that’s not the problem
but some kinda problems
come up all the time!
We’ve got a secret that we already know
We just don’t talk about it, that’s how that goes
and if we did then we might just have to face
that we can’t keep this up, no not at this pace
Everbody’s got reasons
that’s not a reason’
to try to reason
away the truth
Everybody’s got troubles
that’s not the trouble
but we’ve got trouble
and that takes two
Vocal jam to verse chords
do do do do do do do do
do do doooo I still like you
do do do do do do do do
but there are times I can’t…stand… you!
Lyrics and Music by Ren Enberg
(Copyright 12/17/11)
Liner Notes: Inspired by a deep conversation with Zeke, one of my doms, about love, what it is, what we mean when we say it. I pretty much said welcome to the club of thinkers and artists that have tried to capture and express what love is, and the types of love you can experience. I guess it breaks down into erotic, romantic, love of family/friends, and love of humankind. All I know is, by the time we were done the conversation, we were clear what we meant when we say it to each other and have felt “free” to ever since, whenever it’s felt. I wish I felt so free more often, but words are labels and love is one of the biggest baddest labels of them all.
There’s work to be done on the existing tracks, as well as addition of bass and mastering, but you can hear how this one is coming along here via my Original Lyrics A-Z page.
With open eyes
like the full moon
he asked me, “What is love?”
what is love?
With open mind
fully in tune
he asked me, “What is love?”
Where does it come from?
What is it made of?
By whose law does it abide?
by whose law?
why does it often hurt
and seem so fragile
does love ever lie?
does love ever lie?
Why is there a fault line in something so magic
Why do we force it when it wants to move like water; so tragic
in it’s own way, (let it be)
by it’s own accord, (let it be)
how much more love could we receive?
if we let love?
Lyrics and Music by Ren Enberg
(Copyright 06/23/12)
Liner Notes: This one was written for my dominant, Zeke. He knows I’m no better unbound.
We can’t fight each other’s battles
We can’t wage each other’s war
We can’t claim a part in victory
if we aren’t there for the fall
We can try to work together
We can try to take a stand
If we take it toward each other
we will surely end up damned
I agree we must be stronger
I agree I didn’t trust
and I’ll say it if I’m wrong
Sometimes I’m still removing the rust
And if not for all of these
good intentions
we’d be turning back to dust
turning back to dust
I am amazed that we are poetry
I’m stunned that we exist
I’m ablaze with erotic imagery
I’m debased with erotic twist
I’m clouded in my judgement
I’ve never seen so far before
I’m aghast my past is loosening
and I’m lounging on the floor
I’m struggling in my stupor
I’m endorphined to the bone
I’m not lost when I am with you
and I’m no better found alone
(Vocal Jam)
We can try and find the limits
We can push until we fall
It’s ok to fall together
if we’re tearing down the walls
There’s a lesson in here somewhere
there’s a gift to be unwrapped
I’ve submitted to correction
I was wrong in my attack
I agree there is a reason
and I see I didn’t trust
Among the roots that I’ve been digging
I’ve uncovered faith in us
And if not for all of these
good intentions
we’d be turning back to dust
turning back to dust
I’m amazed how well you know me
I’m stunned how well we sync
I’m ablaze with the heat of everything
I’m focused on only this
I’m giving up my judgement
I’ve left regretting at the door
I’m eager for more exploring
where I haven’t thought to go before
I’m soaring in the space you sent me
I’m endorphined to the bone
I’m not lost when I’m without you
I’m no better found unbound